The demand to be safe in a relationship inevitably breeds sorrow and fear . The seeking for security invites insecurity . Have you ever found security in any of your relationships ? Have you? Most of us want the security of loving and being loved , but there is love when each one of us is seeking his own security, his own particular path? We are not loved because we don’t know how to love. Is love an idea ? If it is, it can be cultivated, nourished, cherished, pushed around, and twisted in any way you like. When you say you love God what does it mean? It means that you love a projection of your own imagination, a projection of yourself clothed in certain forms of respectability according to what you think is noble and holy; so to say, ‘I love God’, is absolute nonsense. When you worship God, you worship yourself, and that is not love. In what we call human love, there is pleasure, competition, jealousy, the desire to possess, to hold, to control and to interfere with another’s th...